Today has been a bit of a strange day, I decided to check and clear my voicemails from my phone as it was blinking full, I barely use it so was surprised it was full, then again I never check for calls or messages so why should I have been! Anyways, first few were those stupid machines that drive you crazy saying you have won something or trying to sell you something, then there was a random message which if I hadn't hit delete would have listened to again which I'm sure was my ex's voice shouting "big tits" then laughing in the background from him and his girlfriend, the next message was from my gran, she was going on in it about checked summer dresses for school and that she didn't know to buy a 3-4 or 4-5 age (message must have been from 2 years ago as Brogan now 7, shows how often I listen to them!) she then goes in it and asks my grandad how much they cost and you can hear him say "they were £3", I know it sounds mad but it got me really upset as I miss him so much since he died last month and it felt so strange to hear his voice, not his sick voice either that he eventually got but his proper voice! A few messages on there was one from my mum, this was another strange message she was saying in it that she was going to a hospital appointment with David (her partner) and should be home by 3 but not to worry if she wasn't as Sean was in the house, Sean was my step-brother who died last March, another call from the dead!!! Ok I never heard his voice but to know when it was made he was there & still alive, makes me feel strange.
Needless to say since I listened to those messages I have been in a weird mood and have listened to them about 20 times since, its nice to hear my grandad talking and nice to hear a time from when Sean was alive as well.
This evening we took Violet to Chris's parents house for a while to see them, we left her there and went to Glasgow Fort to take a nosey around for a while, when we got back Chris's mum happily told us that she had fed Violet mash potato! I never said anyhting and haven't yet to Chris but I'm FURIOUS, she is not even being weaned yet, yes me & Chris have tried her with a few foods but were her parents and as much as we think a little try of foods just now is ok we dont want her on solids just yet as she not completely ready for them. I dont even know if she put anything in them (such as milk or butter) or if she cooks with salt (most people do without realising that you can't cook with salt if giving it to a baby as it is dangerous to them), she said she gave her a few spoonfuls and she ate them all!!!! We NEVER have given her a few spoonfuls of anything only little tastes from what we are eating, I can safely say I wont be leaving her there with them for a while, I'm so pissed off about it that I know it will only cause an argument (that I cant be bothered with) if I say just now so will need to bite my tongue till tomorrow maye then I will have calmed down about it so can be more rational but I doubt it!
On another note about weaning, I have an appointment tomorrow for a weaning fayre with Violet and really looking forward to it so that I can get recipie ideas for her for when I do start to wean her.
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